Helpful Tips for Caregivers and Friends

Spending a final Christmas with a loved one who is nearing the end of life can be deeply emotional. Sharing helpful tips for people to make the experience meaningful and supportive for everyone involved are a few ways to bring the holidays closer and last memories made.

Focus on Presence Over Perfection

• Simplify plans and let go of the pressure to make everything “perfect.”
• Spend quality time together—share stories, watch favorite movies, or simply sit in each other’s company.

Create Meaningful Moments

• Engage in activities that hold special significance, like decorating the tree together, playing their favorite holiday music, or preparing a cherished family recipe.
• Capture memories through photos, videos, or journaling.

Encourage Open Communication

• Share your feelings, express gratitude, and say the things that matter most.
• Allow space for your loved one to share their thoughts or reminisce about past Christmases.

Honour Your Loved One’s Wishes

• Respect their energy levels and preferences. If they’re too tired for festivities, keep things simple and adjust plans as needed.
• Include them in decision-making about how to celebrate, even if it means doing things differently this year.

Cherish the Small Moments

• Focus on the little things—holding hands, a shared smile, or moments of laughter. These often become the most cherished memories.
• Practice mindfulness to fully appreciate the time you have together, even in the quiet moments.

Treat Yourself with Kindness

• Remind yourself that this is a difficult time and you are doing the best you can.
• Practice self-care and share compassion for yourself.
• You don’t have to be perfect.

The most important gift you can give is your love and presence. Letting your loved one feel cared for, seen, and cherished will make the time you share together truly meaningful.